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posted by [personal profile] chibimonnie at 08:40am on 10/09/2011
I keep hearing about the importance of making a Five Year Plan (primarily from my dad). It's something I struggle to do. And then while driving home from the grocery store this morning it hit me. My life's goals aren't tangible. I don't strive for things like social status, material wealth, or a position of power. When I'm my grandparents' age, I want to look back on a life filled with joy, freedom, and experiences. I want to have stories to tell, not money to count. That's not to say that I don't recognize the need for a certain amount of money; there are bills to pay after all. But beyond paying the bills, most of what I want doesn't cost money. And of the things I do want, what I do I really need? Family, friendship, learning, tranquility- none of these cost a dime and I already have them. I could die today with no regrets and say that I lived a fulfilling life.
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posted by [personal profile] roil64 at 10:00pm on 10/09/2011
What kind of FYP? I mean, I don't know anyone with a firm five year plan. Even ones with good paying jobs, etc, etc...Seriously staying healthy, sane, and employed is the breadth and width of my plans. I have a strong yearning to live in the mountains of NC or the shores of NC (i'm not picky) but as far as a 'career' goes that is an out dated model of life in the 21st century. Now your parents like all parents (hopefully) may just be worried about you because you do not have a 'mate' and do not own a home. Again, out dated ways o' the world. I know my folks worry about that in regard to me. But as I have a hetero life partner in my BFF I am not so worried. You have a great Life plan and that is more important!
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posted by [personal profile] chibimonnie at 10:14pm on 11/09/2011
Basically my dad would like me to have the whole rest of my life mapped out in easy to follow steps. lol. I prefer meandering down the path and taking the fork that's most appealing at the moment it appears. I just never know what life's going to throw at me next and it was the times I got thrown off my "plan" that I tumbled into the deepest depressions. I find life to be much less stressful now that I don't have a set plan.

Shores and mountains of NC are both gorgeous! Can't go wrong with either. I have a friend in VA who is moving to Asheville, NC just as soon as she can find a job there.
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posted by [personal profile] roil64 at 01:17am on 12/09/2011
Plans never survive first contact! That is why I prefer vague, misty maybe's, and 'that would be cool, we should do that' type of futures...

But he's your Dad, he worries. Remind him you put nothing but Good Karma out into the World and the World will take care of you. Life is good.

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